Balance of energies and featured jewelry
The triangle. Upright it represents the Father, Son and Holy Ghost. But, turn it upside down, and all of sudden you have Maid, Mother and Crone. I get kind of a chuckle out of the fact that if male energy is thrown for a loop, you get female energy.
But, that is just me being sassy.
The fact is, we need both male and female energy. In the world, in our lives, in ourselves. One without the other creates a serious imbalance, and things go all wonky.
Case in point, let’s take my work. Now, I know one shouldn’t write about one’s job, but I work with a good bunch of fellows and they are in full agreement with what I am about to say.
Notice I said good bunch of fellows. Men. The management team at work is all men. And I’m not talking a management team of two or three. I’m talking six of them. Can you say ‘testosterone’?
So, when they were considering inviting me to join their management team, they asked me why they should include me.
Ladies, you will be shocked, but I said they needed to include me because I am a woman.
Trust me, I am not one to pull my gender. EVER! If I ask a man for help, it’s because I have determined that I either cannot do the task due to skill set, or I simply do not want to do the task. If a woman standing next to me could operate a skill saw, I would ask her.
Nor have I ever considered the notion of using my gender in any way to gain an advantage at work. As my dear friend Barbara, author of the Unfaithful Widow, says delightfully “I could never remember if you put out before or after to get a job, so I went with brains and hard work”.
So, my response to these wonderful gentlemen wasn’t about me being a woman so much, as all of them being male. And trust me, it showed in their leadership style, and our projects were suffering because of it.
Don’t get me wrong, male leadership style is needed. Rather, the projects were suffering because of the lack of balance.
And clever gentlemen that they are, they promptly invited me to the team.
Now, I realize I am only one woman to their six men, but I am one very strong woman (me being sassy again). I have in turn been able to empower other women in our division and there is definitely a shift in energy.
Not a pendulum swing away from male to female energy, but to a beautiful balance of both.
In honour of female energy, I have created the Silver & Grace Signature Pieces. Each necklace in this line has a chainmaille inverted triangle representing the Maid, Mother and Crone. While we may have moved into the Crone stage in terms of years, we continue to experience all aspects of this triad.
- The Maid when we are entering into a new situation
- The Mother when we are nurturing
- The Crone when we are sharing wisdom
The necklace pendants in the Signature line are one of a kind. When you buy a piece from this line, you are the only woman to wear it. It is unique.
As are you.
My first Signature piece is Dew Drops. To make this one of a kind necklace yours, please visit the Silver & Grace store. Upon check out, be sure to enter Discount Code C3609 to get 10% off. This code is valid on this item only and is good until August 12, 2010.
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My brother-in-law said something quite simple to me a few months ago:
“If you don’t ask, you don’t get.”
His fencing coach used to say that to him, apparently.
I recently (about a month ago) started really, truly living that way. Earlier this week, I asked for something.
I may get it, with some luck. I can’t say right now what it is, but if it comes through, you’d better believe I will shout it from the highest mountain top…
@Brett – from Day One of Silver & Grace I went with the philosophy “Just ask”. Incredible doors and opportunities have come about because of it. If the request is reasonable, the worst that can happen is the answer is ‘no’. Which is fine! Because then it wasn’t meant to be. I will be listening for your shout
Brett, do you have mountaintops where you live?
I’m rootin’ for ya… heck, you won’t need no mountaintop.
Eliza, what I really love about your work is how much value you put into it, beyond the actual stones and design. The story and the symbology you incorporate into the design; I love it. It’s like a mother naming each of her children, or something.
@Eliza,
I will definitely let you know what’s going on, as soon as I have some feedback.
@Davina,
The Laurentian Foothills are just across the river from me – I can see them, but I can’t get to them.
That’s okay, I’d rather have the ocean
@Davina – it’s an interesting process. I go and look at beads and just let my mind float. Eventually, an image appropriate to the Earth, Wind, Air or Fire comes to mind, and I select those beads. I don’t have a design at this point; I just know I need to select those beads. The design comes when I lay the beads out in front of me and let my mind float again. This can set up some fun challenges. For example, I bought beads that screamed Watermelon Seeds at me. Now I just have to figure out how to make a watermelon necklace *grin*
@Brett – awesome! Looking forward to the update.