Comments on: Enhancing the mother and daughter relationship http://silverandgrace.com/enhancing-the-mother-and-daughter-relationship Tue, 07 Feb 2012 06:01:43 -0500 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Welcome to October 8,2010 edition of Parenting « Thingsthatcheermeup's Blog http://silverandgrace.com/enhancing-the-mother-and-daughter-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-2148 Welcome to October 8,2010 edition of Parenting « Thingsthatcheermeup's Blog Sat, 09 Oct 2010 02:38:15 +0000 http://silverandgrace.com/?p=361#comment-2148 [...] Recipe for an Instinctive Birth posted at The Garden of Birth – BLOG.   Eliza Fayle presents Enhancing the mother and daughter relationship posted at Silver and Grace.   Rick Schiano presents Love Your Children posted at Ricks Victory [...] [...] Recipe for an Instinctive Birth posted at The Garden of Birth – BLOG.   Eliza Fayle presents Enhancing the mother and daughter relationship posted at Silver and Grace.   Rick Schiano presents Love Your Children posted at Ricks Victory [...]

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]]> By: Eliza http://silverandgrace.com/enhancing-the-mother-and-daughter-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-210 Eliza Wed, 26 Aug 2009 20:21:34 +0000 http://silverandgrace.com/?p=361#comment-210 @Robin - I love this line "it all has come through gaining understanding about my life’s direction". That's so true, eh? Once I really figured out who I was in my own right, my relationship with my mother changed immensely. And even through the 'mud' I know exactly what you are talking about. @Robin – I love this line “it all has come through gaining understanding about my life’s direction”. That’s so true, eh? Once I really figured out who I was in my own right, my relationship with my mother changed immensely. And even through the ‘mud’ I know exactly what you are talking about.

]]> By: Robin http://silverandgrace.com/enhancing-the-mother-and-daughter-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-209 Robin Wed, 26 Aug 2009 12:46:12 +0000 http://silverandgrace.com/?p=361#comment-209 Hi there Eliza - fascinating to hear about your family! I've certainly had my ups and downs with my mother - for me, being at peace about it all has come through gaining understanding about my life's direction, and the purpose of our relationship. All of which I know I'm making clear as mud - I don't really want to talk about my mother online. Your own company? - that's exciting! Hi there Eliza – fascinating to hear about your family! I’ve certainly had my ups and downs with my mother – for me, being at peace about it all has come through gaining understanding about my life’s direction, and the purpose of our relationship. All of which I know I’m making clear as mud – I don’t really want to talk about my mother online. Your own company? – that’s exciting!

]]> By: Eliza http://silverandgrace.com/enhancing-the-mother-and-daughter-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-208 Eliza Tue, 25 Aug 2009 21:33:15 +0000 http://silverandgrace.com/?p=361#comment-208 @Patricia - working on a business with any family member can be a tricky thing. I am starting my own company, and my eldest daughter will be doing some work for it. We've had several conversations about expecations so there are no misunderstandings. I am sure we will have several more. Open and honest communication is even more important for these situations. @Patricia – working on a business with any family member can be a tricky thing. I am starting my own company, and my eldest daughter will be doing some work for it. We’ve had several conversations about expecations so there are no misunderstandings. I am sure we will have several more. Open and honest communication is even more important for these situations.

]]> By: Patricia http://silverandgrace.com/enhancing-the-mother-and-daughter-relationship/comment-page-1#comment-207 Patricia Tue, 25 Aug 2009 19:09:15 +0000 http://silverandgrace.com/?p=361#comment-207 I realized about ten years before her death, as I was taking on more and more responsibility for my mum's care, that I was the one who must change - She was very happy with her life and her death...I may be dressing her, after her broken back, but she still perceived that I was incompetent with money. She did tell me what a wonderful parent I was and she was proud of how I assisted my children into growing into their own world and strength - even my special needs one and she was able to help me back off when I was being too hard. - she ruled until the day before her death, when she said "you take over now" and was gone 12 hours later. I had to teach her how to "let go" and move on - that was very interesting...and powerful and magnificent. She realized I was my own person when not in attendance to her - but she could not make eye contact or discuss anything when I was answering those questions. I do have a problem that is trying my patience to resolve. I am still the parent to my daughters and nurture their maturing moves, but I am dependent on my 30 year old who is a "math" genius and she helps me with finances and planning when my husband will not...she gets sometimes controlling doing all my IT work on the blog...such as she chooses the images/ format and I have a very hard time getting her help to get the ads I want....like a series of Spa products I discovered and are exquisite healers from London...which is a company looking for outlets here in the US....she just says she is too busy right now...and with Dyscalcula and no money I have to be patient.....I work with her with compassionate communications mediation, but she will only respond when she is ready. Frustration for me! Great post - thank you and I think this is an important discussion. My youngest child I see the mom's competing so with their daughters with clothing and sexual flirtation etc. I think it is scary I realized about ten years before her death, as I was taking on more and more responsibility for my mum’s care, that I was the one who must change – She was very happy with her life and her death…I may be dressing her, after her broken back, but she still perceived that I was incompetent with money. She did tell me what a wonderful parent I was and she was proud of how I assisted my children into growing into their own world and strength – even my special needs one and she was able to help me back off when I was being too hard. – she ruled until the day before her death, when she said “you take over now” and was gone 12 hours later.
I had to teach her how to “let go” and move on – that was very interesting…and powerful and magnificent. She realized I was my own person when not in attendance to her – but she could not make eye contact or discuss anything when I was answering those questions.

I do have a problem that is trying my patience to resolve. I am still the parent to my daughters and nurture their maturing moves, but I am dependent on my 30 year old who is a “math” genius and she helps me with finances and planning when my husband will not…she gets sometimes controlling doing all my IT work on the blog…such as she chooses the images/ format and I have a very hard time getting her help to get the ads I want….like a series of Spa products I discovered and are exquisite healers from London…which is a company looking for outlets here in the US….she just says she is too busy right now…and with Dyscalcula and no money I have to be patient…..I work with her with compassionate communications mediation, but she will only respond when she is ready. Frustration for me!
Great post – thank you and I think this is an important discussion.
My youngest child I see the mom’s competing so with their daughters with clothing and sexual flirtation etc. I think it is scary

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